Colin, did you read the authors response to my initial comment? I found him to be extremely gracious, and I in fact sent him a connect request on LinkedIn. These are different times for sure, but in my mind monogamy is a social construct. Like you, I was brought up to believe that monoamory was the only de facto moral relationship. It takes thinking and acting outside of the box, but many fully consensual polyamorists will tell you they enjoy a life of deep love and fun.