I think it’s helpful to distinguish between lust and other forms of love such as romance, and companionship. Sometimes (depending) on the goal, all a man wants to do IS to ejaculate. I personally think it’s more cost effective to just masturbate. However, a romantic experience is when you ‘make love’, and that’s distinct from just sex… ‘making lust’. You can’t make love without the ‘connection’.

I also agree there are so many more ways to be cared from apart from sex. To be honest, I’m extremely bored when the most a lady brings to the table are her erotic assets. I appreciate other forms of capital, including domestic, intellectual and definitely emotional.