Thanks for being so vulnerable and allowing us into your thoughts. I wonder whether they are incels because they are depressed, or are they depressed because they are incels?
For what it’s worth, I’m not depressed but I’d certainly be involuntarily celibate because of my age range, and taste in women, if I wasn’t very well off. This is true particularly in the area of the USA where I live. I do know from experience that many men fare better when they travel to other countries.